Friday, June 29, 2012

BECAUSE LIFE IS A LEARNING PROCESS


What would you do if you knew you would not fail? I would do ALL truly worth doing without any fear.

But I am not a “fail proof” person. I faced many failures in my life and the hardest part is not only dealing with the guilty feeling but to forgive myself. Sometimes I wish I could see what my life would be like if I had made different decisions.

The fear of failure is a major stumbling block for most of us. That is life all about. Nothing is permanent, joy, sorrow, glory, failure is just the season of life. By the way, I love this phrase “If you can’t fly then run, if you can’t run then walk, If you cant walk then crawl, but whatever we do we have to keep moving forward”.

I’ve learned that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt me every once in a while and I must forgive them for that.

I've learned that every relationship is not always meant to work, sometimes we're  just  meant to learn the lesson

I've learned that disappointments were not meant to destroy us but to strengthen and give us fortitude to accomplish God-given destiny

I've learned that God has perfect timing for everything, and I learn to wait on HIM, and it brings me peace

I’ve learned that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes I have to learn to forgive myself.

I’ve learned that I spent so much of my daughter’s childhood worrying about doing the right thing that I sometimes forgot to simply enjoy her.

I’ve learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I’ve learned that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.

I’ve learned that I shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. Sometimes I have to let God

I’ve learned that even when I think I have no more to give, when a friend cries out to me I will find the strength to help.

I’ve learned that luxury does not make us a decent human being.

In school, we’re taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, were given a test that teaches us a lesson. Never leave every moment without learning something, anything happen, it happens for a reason, and the best reason is that all things work for our good, as long as we let God take control.

Take a leap of faith. Take the first step of faith, we don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.  So, never mind fail, learn something from it. If you’ve never failed, you’ve never lived.

I am who I am, am not perfect, I say stupid things sometimes, I fail sometimes  ……  I made so many mistakes I wish I could rectify, but that’s just me and my best teacher is LIFE.


“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose”. Romans 8:28

HELLO, I'M BACK!


Counting down the time, June, May, April, March, February ...., ups!. It was 7th of February 2012 that I posted my last notes. It’s been very long time, indeed, too long. I feel guilty for letting this blog is being neglected.

Why is that so long?

1. I had been deadly busy with work and ministry
2. Ideas oftentimes comes out when am in the toilet, then just ‘blank’ while in front of computer

But, here I am again. This is a short note to greet you all and say HELLO, I am back, and ready with a new post.

Happy reading !!

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